
For a span of nearly two decades, there was a Palmer brother walking the halls of The High. In 2017 the last of this generation of Cubs, Brian Palmer ‘17, walk across the stage at Greater Grace Temple. This event brought home members of a family who, since their time at U of D Jesuit, have gone on to travel the world, defend our freedoms, and serve as spiritual leaders.
Mike Palmer ’07 has made it his mission to serve as all three of those roles. Just this past April, he became Fr. Mike Palmer of the Congregation of Holy Cross.
“It started back in my sophomore year at U of D Jesuit,” explained Fr. Palmer. “When I was getting ready to visit Notre Dame on a college visit, a priest at my home parish told me about the religious order of Holy Cross, which I didn’t know existed at the time. He suggested I visit their seminary at Notre Dame, and I immediately felt right at home! Community and brotherhood were huge emphases at U of D Jesuit and Shrine, and this was also the case in Holy Cross. One of our driving pillars is community, so that was attractive for me and drew me into thinking about the priesthood seriously.”
Fr. Palmer’s journey to ordination has been anything but ordinary. After joining the seminary in 2007, he graduated from Notre Dame in 2011 and began his graduate studies at Moreau Seminary (Notre Dame, Indiana) in 2012. When his superiors asked him if he was considering a special ministry, he took off on a path less traveled.
“I have so many relatives in the military, and I kept hearing from them that there are so few Catholic priests and chaplains,” said Fr. Palmer. “There is a huge need for spiritual support, especially for Catholics.”
Unsure about whether this ministry was even possible, Fr. Palmer asked his seminary staff about joining the Army Chaplain Corps.
“I wasn’t sure what they would say, but I discovered that the Congregation of Holy Cross has had chaplains in the military since the Civil War,” Fr. Palmer shared. “Fr. [William] Corby, CSC, is actually the only civilian to have his own statue on the battlefield at Gettysburg; it depicts him giving absolution to the Union troops. The seminary staff said I was the first seminarian in three or four decades to pursue this, but they would support me if I was willing to put in the work. It is a need, and we are called to go where God needs us. I feel this is something God is calling me to do.”
Fr. Palmer shipped out to Ft. Jackson in South Carolina in June of 2015 for Army Chaplain school, still just a seminarian.
“That was an incredible experience for a number of reasons,” explained Fr. Palmer. “I had never had
Army experience, and they certainly train you hard core. I was one of 80-90 chaplains there, all of different backgrounds, age groups and faiths. Of 80-90 people, I was one of only four Catholics - I was the lone seminarian, as the others were priests.
“That summer was a great learning experience. I got to be great friends with people that weren’t Catholic. My time at U of D Jesuit came into play, because there were folks there who had never known any Catholics – just like I had never met some of their faith groups, either. There were a lot of questions for one another, just out of curiosity and trying to better our understanding. It was a genuinely humbling experience, and it strengthened my faith because I had to put it into my own words.”
Not only did Fr. Palmer learn quickly, but he embraced the reality that as an Army chaplain, he was there not only for Catholics, but to serve all faiths.
“We all had a common goal in mind, and it was incredible to witness,” Fr. Palmer said. “Coming from U of D Jesuit and being committed to doing justice and open to growth was huge. It was a powerful summer.”
Fr. Palmer’s military career is still young and currently has him in the reserves. He was directly commissioned a second lieutenant after completing chaplain school and trains one weekend per month with a local unit as a first lieutenant. Now that Fr. Palmer is ordained, he will be re-commissioned as a full chaplain in July. After two more years with the reserves, Fr. Palmer will be able to go active duty.
“I do want to be deployed. There is a huge need,” said Fr. Palmer. “If I’m truly called to be a chaplain, I don’t want to be behind a desk. I want to be out where God sends me to go and needed. I always think of my uncles and brothers that went without spiritual support and the sacraments for so long while deployed. That story keeps reoccurring and drives me to go active duty.”
Both the Army and his order of Holy Cross have been very supportive of one another, understanding his calling to the chaplaincy, but also his obligations as a full-time time priest. To Fr. Palmer, they are not competing jobs; instead, the chaplaincy is a critical part of his ministry.
When tracking his path to where he is today, currently serving as an associate pastor at Christ the King in South Bend, Indiana, Fr. Palmer recalled two motivating factors for joining the priesthood.
"There wasn’t really one person on which everything rested; instead, I relied on the community of faith at U of D Jesuit, and its attentiveness to faith and knowledge. That aspect of U of D Jesuit education gave me the confidence to give this life a shot."
- Palmer on Receiving Support on Becoming A Priest
“I didn’t exactly have a St. Paul moment where I was struck off my horse,” Fr. Palmer started. “My uncle had been in Iraq with the Army; one night at dinner, he mentioned that the whole time he was there, he never saw a Catholic priest. No mass, no confession, no spiritual guidance for a whole year. My first reaction was, ‘How is that even possible? Going without the sacraments, especially in that environment?’
“The second moment came during a retreat at Sacred Heart Seminary in Detroit. I was having a conversation with one of the guys there about how much he loved to play basketball. It struck me as kind of funny, because I always pictured in my head that the seminary was basically a bunch of monks walking around and praying all day. But hearing these conversations, I realized they were normal men. Imperfect men, like all of us, called to something great by God. That gave me confidence to pursue my vocation. It took away my fear of having to be perfect to do this. The apostles weren’t perfect, and Jesus still calls imperfect people to serve.”
Fr. Palmer looks back to his sophomore year as a Cub when the bricks really began to be laid for his path to priesthood.
“Matthew Hill taught Morality and was a good mentor,” Fr. Palmer said. “Fr. [Karl] Kiser, S.J., also, with his experience as a priest, helped out. My classmates were also a big part of it, especially Dan Devine ’07, who is also in the seminary for a different order. There wasn’t really one person on which everything rested; instead, I relied on the community of faith at U of D Jesuit, and its attentiveness to faith and knowledge. That aspect of U of D Jesuit education gave me the confidence to give this life a shot.”
When asked to define the heart of Jesuit education, Fr. Palmer spoke of his trust in God and his passion for sharing his faith - two characteristics he’s taken to heart as an alum and used throughout his career.
“The best thing about Jesuit education is that it isn’t afraid to bring together faith and reason. It isn’t afraid to bring faith into the conversations of the world. Jesuit education acknowledges that there are things in the world that aren’t easily answered by anyone, but our faith always has a seat at the table. Our belief gives us something to bring to the world. That means that faith has to work with intellect.”